6 inches (BE CAREFUL WITH SHE)
Six inch heels, she walked in the club like
nobody's business
Goddamn, she murdered everybody and I was her witness -Bey
Wussup love, how's your day? Long you say? I can only imagine. It's like that you know. I see you though. Hey, but you've got to relax. It's not healthy to have all that stress and strain on your back. Grab your drink, light your candles and run that water. Call your plug, cop that quarter LOL. Ayy whatever works for you... just come vibe with me for a few.
I have a lot on my plate right now too and my agenda is full, but you were on my mind tonight and what better way to relax than write..okay i'm done with the rhymes and the smooth lines but forrealll you really gotta know when to chill. I mean I know the pressure is MOST DEFINITELY real..But hey, if it ain't real you haven't started living. I don't care who you are, or what you do. I'm proud of you for not giving up. Nothing in this world is easy. Sometimes getting out of bed is the hardest part of my day, sometimes going to bed is too. Don't sleep on depression y'all, it comes in many different forms, but when it pops up, address it. STOP and allow yourself to feel whats real. Speak to the god in you and reel yourself back in the game. You got this, I'm rooting for you. If we haven't got acquainted then maybe we should, if you're not ready I respect that..but please get acquainted with yourself. On to my Queens...men stay tuned, i'm speaking to my ladies but I need you to hear me too..
Yall remember when we were young, and we use to create clubs (groups) and shit with our friends, siblings and cousins LOL: bad girls club, sexy ladies only, cheetah girls.. remember all the crazy names we use to come up with..S/O to my Tokyo Diamonds! Then we use to make paper signs, "NO BOYS ALLOWED" ! Man those were really the days!! Now, it seems like we can't even function without boys in our space...Now before we go any further, I would like to say that I am not no "I don't need no man" kinda sista'. On my path to finding self, I realize that we can't survive without our men, we naturally need one another. However sis, we have to find our self before we can connect with them on the level that we desire.
WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?
It means being completely honest about our needs and wants. Have you ever stopped to think about what that is? 9 times out of 10, most of us don't know what it is that we need and want because we never gave our self time to figure it out. We hop from one relation to the next, seeking to find that fulfillment. We don't fulfill our own wants and needs and then we hope that others will do it for us. We hope they will be that missing link to our puzzle that just can't seem to be found. We hope they will be our peace when we are experiencing a storm. We hope that they will motivate us, support us, listen to us, stick by us. We hope that they will come fully packaged..financially secure..headstrong in all aspects lmao, and most of all we PRAY they are LOYAL...I'm with you on alll of that, I want that in my life too sis. Question is, have you provided yourself with that first? Can you be your own peace when you're experiencing a storm? Do you motivate yourself, support yourself, be real with your self and stick by your guidelines? Do you even create guidelines for yourself? Do you know what it is you need, want, don't want, and won't tolerate? Or do you compromise your needs and wants just to end up settling for less in hopes of satisfaction but end up being dissatisfied anyway? Queen are we able to provide financially for our self? I mean don't get me wrong, ain't nothing wrong with expanding our security. But are we secure alone? Are we able to take care of self and sustain?..Sis i'm asking these questions because before we can establish a firm foundation, we must first build. But how can we build with a man, if we haven't built our self? How do we expect loyalty when we haven't been loyal to ourselves..You remember that time we said we wouldn't go back or be treated like that again but here we are once again, stuck in the same situation and unfortunately with the same dude? You remember that time after things got real physical, he said it wouldn't happen again. You remember when it did happen again?
I think it's time we step back and re-evaluate our circumstances. I think it's time we be real with ourselves. I think it's time we allow our self to feel and grow without limits. I think it's time we self- care. I think it's time we hold ourselves accountable for our actions. I think its time we stop making excuses for tolerating the bull. I think it's time we create those "no boys allowed" spaces so that we only attract men. I think it's time for discipline, and yes it sometimes come with sacrifices. I think it's time to listen to our minds and hearts and play with our own pussy if we have to. I told yall, I wasn't sugarcoating shit, I know how it get LOL. Males can sense when you are simply vulnerable. Boys will play on your vulnerability. Men will not. Choose wisely.
But before you choose him, choose you first. It's okay to make em' work for the water, before you quench his thirst. Put your 6inches on, go out and move with confidence, he will soon be following your every lead..but tonight is all about you, so BE CAREFUL WITH SHE.
PROTECT YOUR ENERGY AT ALL COST!
Until Next Time,
Mocha
nobody's business
Goddamn, she murdered everybody and I was her witness -Bey
Wussup love, how's your day? Long you say? I can only imagine. It's like that you know. I see you though. Hey, but you've got to relax. It's not healthy to have all that stress and strain on your back. Grab your drink, light your candles and run that water. Call your plug, cop that quarter LOL. Ayy whatever works for you... just come vibe with me for a few.
I have a lot on my plate right now too and my agenda is full, but you were on my mind tonight and what better way to relax than write..okay i'm done with the rhymes and the smooth lines but forrealll you really gotta know when to chill. I mean I know the pressure is MOST DEFINITELY real..But hey, if it ain't real you haven't started living. I don't care who you are, or what you do. I'm proud of you for not giving up. Nothing in this world is easy. Sometimes getting out of bed is the hardest part of my day, sometimes going to bed is too. Don't sleep on depression y'all, it comes in many different forms, but when it pops up, address it. STOP and allow yourself to feel whats real. Speak to the god in you and reel yourself back in the game. You got this, I'm rooting for you. If we haven't got acquainted then maybe we should, if you're not ready I respect that..but please get acquainted with yourself. On to my Queens...men stay tuned, i'm speaking to my ladies but I need you to hear me too..
Yall remember when we were young, and we use to create clubs (groups) and shit with our friends, siblings and cousins LOL: bad girls club, sexy ladies only, cheetah girls.. remember all the crazy names we use to come up with..S/O to my Tokyo Diamonds! Then we use to make paper signs, "NO BOYS ALLOWED" ! Man those were really the days!! Now, it seems like we can't even function without boys in our space...Now before we go any further, I would like to say that I am not no "I don't need no man" kinda sista'. On my path to finding self, I realize that we can't survive without our men, we naturally need one another. However sis, we have to find our self before we can connect with them on the level that we desire.
WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT EVEN MEAN?
It means being completely honest about our needs and wants. Have you ever stopped to think about what that is? 9 times out of 10, most of us don't know what it is that we need and want because we never gave our self time to figure it out. We hop from one relation to the next, seeking to find that fulfillment. We don't fulfill our own wants and needs and then we hope that others will do it for us. We hope they will be that missing link to our puzzle that just can't seem to be found. We hope they will be our peace when we are experiencing a storm. We hope that they will motivate us, support us, listen to us, stick by us. We hope that they will come fully packaged..financially secure..headstrong in all aspects lmao, and most of all we PRAY they are LOYAL...I'm with you on alll of that, I want that in my life too sis. Question is, have you provided yourself with that first? Can you be your own peace when you're experiencing a storm? Do you motivate yourself, support yourself, be real with your self and stick by your guidelines? Do you even create guidelines for yourself? Do you know what it is you need, want, don't want, and won't tolerate? Or do you compromise your needs and wants just to end up settling for less in hopes of satisfaction but end up being dissatisfied anyway? Queen are we able to provide financially for our self? I mean don't get me wrong, ain't nothing wrong with expanding our security. But are we secure alone? Are we able to take care of self and sustain?..Sis i'm asking these questions because before we can establish a firm foundation, we must first build. But how can we build with a man, if we haven't built our self? How do we expect loyalty when we haven't been loyal to ourselves..You remember that time we said we wouldn't go back or be treated like that again but here we are once again, stuck in the same situation and unfortunately with the same dude? You remember that time after things got real physical, he said it wouldn't happen again. You remember when it did happen again?
I think it's time we step back and re-evaluate our circumstances. I think it's time we be real with ourselves. I think it's time we allow our self to feel and grow without limits. I think it's time we self- care. I think it's time we hold ourselves accountable for our actions. I think its time we stop making excuses for tolerating the bull. I think it's time we create those "no boys allowed" spaces so that we only attract men. I think it's time for discipline, and yes it sometimes come with sacrifices. I think it's time to listen to our minds and hearts and play with our own pussy if we have to. I told yall, I wasn't sugarcoating shit, I know how it get LOL. Males can sense when you are simply vulnerable. Boys will play on your vulnerability. Men will not. Choose wisely.
But before you choose him, choose you first. It's okay to make em' work for the water, before you quench his thirst. Put your 6inches on, go out and move with confidence, he will soon be following your every lead..but tonight is all about you, so BE CAREFUL WITH SHE.
PROTECT YOUR ENERGY AT ALL COST!
Until Next Time,
Mocha
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